Things just happen!
Dear Friend,
It’s been like months since I wrote a letter to you, I’m sorry about that. I thought I was doing fine but clearly, I’m not!
I know your friends told and made plans to meet you and then abandoned like it was nothing. Traveling to meet someone and them just dumping you is painful and it hurts!
Those lies and reasons just don’t make any sense but here’s what I want you to do — keep an open mind, they have their reasons and understand people, they lied to you or made up stupid reasons to not meet — it’s totally fine!
Don’t judge them or confront them, keep an open mind — accept things as they are, they had some good reason to not meet! It’s not the end of the world and what matters is you and you alone!
Don’t take everything personally, you should learn to handle such situations. Next time even if no one shows up, don’t feel bad for yourself! Remember it’s not you!
You’re free to feel bad or sad for it but understand that it’s not the end, people come and go and nobody knows this better than you do!
So understand that it’s not you sometimes people have other priorities and sometimes they’re confused with themselves, don’t curse them or yourself!
Learn to enjoy your own company, if no one shows up turn it into a positive one like you have the complete freedom to order what you like and not what the group agrees too!
That’s all I’m going to leave you with!
Learn to enjoy your own company, don’t depend on people all the time, I understand that it might get lonelier at times, during those times call someone or write these letters or go for a walk and gaze at the stars and most importantly be grateful for all the things in your life!
Love Always,
Bo
